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Frequently-Asked Adoption Questions

  1. Why would anyone want to adopt?
      There are as many reasons as there are adoptive parents. In general, people adopt because they want children and either can't have their own or would rather help out an existing child than bring a new one into the world.

  2. Why did you want to adopt?

  3. Why adopt from Ukraine?

  4. How much does it cost?
      In round numbers, ignoring half the variables, an international adoption costs anywhere from $10,000 to $35,000. It can be higher than that, but almost never lower unless it's a private adoption with minimal legal fees and travel costs.

      Independent adoptions from Ukraine typically run $14,000 to $25,000, including all expenses door-to-door. A lot of the US-based costs vary based on one's State of residence and the agency/social-worker used for the homestudy. The bulk of the money goes for translation services, travel, accommodations, legal fees, courier fees, expediting fees, medical exam fees, US government bureaucracy fees, hoop-jumping costs, and bulk-order aspirin for the daily headaches.

      Sometimes adopting a second child at the same time doubles the price, but usually it's cheaper to adopt two or more at once because you can save on travel, accommodations, and most fees except legal per-child paperwork.

  5. How long does it take?
      Anywhere from three months to forever. It typically takes three or four months just to get through the US side of the Great Paper Chase (putting together your homestudy, ordering copies of paperwork, getting notarizations, getting a police clearance, getting a child abuse/neglect clearance, finding your tax returns, and getting things notarized, certified, and/or authenticated).

      Theoretically, once Ukraine has all of your paperwork in both English and Ukrainian editions, they then have ten working days to process your paperwork and issue you a registration number. In practice, this sometimes takes several months. It depends on how busy they are, how recently they've changed directors and office personnel, how persistent your translator/facilitator is about asking for status reports, and whether or not they lose everything and make you start all over.

      After Ukraine issues your registration number, you may request an appointment. This often involves slow-boat paper mail across the Atlantic, and can add several weeks to the wait if you're unlucky.

      Your appointment may be anywhere from a week to a year after you receive your registration number. It will depend on what you ask for, how busy they are, how recently they've changed directors and office personnel, how persistent your translator/facilitator is about asking for status reports, and whether or not they lose everything and make you start all over.

      It's not unreasonable to assume that you will travel to Ukraine between two and six months after they receive your dossier.

      Once you are actually in Ukraine, it takes about a month to find your child(ren), have your court appearance, do the paperwork, stop by the US Embassy, and return home. Some parents have reported ten days, door to door, while others have spent forty-five days. Some regions in Ukraine are more "adoption-friendly" than others, and sometimes the thirty-day waiting period is waived. You won't know until you're there. Plan on three or four weeks and remain flexible.

      Many parents post timelines so others can see how their trips went. Google is your friend. You may also want to glance at my timeline for reference.

  6. Who is Cathy Harris?
      Cathy Harris is a lady in Florida who has seven children and a great deal of personal experience adopting from Ukraine. She's made it her mission in life to find every waiting child in Ukraine a home. She's not a facilitator, a translator, a lawyer, or anything else official. She just likes helping others make it through the process. Her website is Ukrainian Angels.

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